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The Parker Bros.
If I were to ask you who has been your greatest creative inspiration, who would spring to mind?
In my case, one might assume I’d list photographers of note, but no; my single greatest artistic influence was my father, who died 5-years-ago today.
Ray Parker Sr. was born in Wolverhampton, England, in 1929. From an early age — he made his debut as a puppeteer at 11 — he demonstrated a passion and talent for entertaining.
Joining the armed forces at eighteen, he began performing for his fellow soldiers, first in England and later touring East Africa. During this time, he developed an impersonation act, which led to theatre, television, and radio engagements.
He later added acting, clowning, mime, dance, ventriloquism, singing, standup comedy, and lip-sync to his repertoire. Regarding the latter, his always-in-demand Rawhide/Mule Train act was dangerous to watch. I helped him, at about 10 years old, splice together the medley, using reel to reel tape machines and tape-loop echo chamber for sound-effects. The original recording, transferred to Compact Cassette, then CD, and finally digital file, still had people falling out of their chairs 50-years on, during this side-splitting performance.
My earliest memories are of him performing with the comedy harmonica act, the Parker Brothers (none directly related).
We emigrated to Canada in 1965, arriving in Vancouver, British Columbia, 53-years-ago yesterday. I have Dad’s diary for that year, recording that he averaged 3 to 4 nights a week in English clubs (many run by labour associations) right up until a fortnight before we boarded the plane. His fee ranged between £4.00 and £8.00 (in 1965, the pound = around $3.00CA).
He soon established his reputation in Canada, performing in nightclubs, theatres and on television. For a while, my younger brother and sister joined me and Dad as the Clown Family — a slapstick comedy act playing everything from children’s Christmas parties to the big stage, including Variety Telethon benefits.
In my teens, I picked up the blues harmonica and we worked some of the same Vancouver nightclubs together — Dad emceed and did standup, while I stood in with some of the best bands on the west coast.
His “retirement” to Vancouver Island, in 1994, didn’t mean he actually stopped working.
I recall my first visit to Victoria, B.C.’s capital on southern Vancouver Island, exactly 50-years ago, in the summer of 1968. Dad was on the road, touring with a variety show — what ever happened to the variety show? — which included a hypnotist (Dad was also a registered clinical hypnotherapist), a magician, and rock band. I was living with the family of a friend at the time. He and I, both 16, travelled to the capital city to see the show, at the McPherson Theatre, I believe. We were put up in the grand old Hotel Douglas, which has recently arisen, renamed The Realto, from the iniquity it fell into over previous decades.
In his forties, Dad added magic to his routine, which he tailored to children and adults alike, depending on the venue. He could pull off a comedy-magic act a la Tommy Cooper (who famously died onstage), misdirecting with bumbling “mistakes” that left audiences agog when the illusion ended up all the more astonishing.
He confounded tables of tipsy nightclub patrons with traditional close-up card conjuring. It was always fun to take friends to the hottest clubs in Vancouver and casually mention that the guy doing the awesome table magic was my dad. He won multiple awards for his innovative illusions. The Victoria Magic Circle now presents an annual Ray Parker Unopened Deck Award “to the Club magician who performs the most creative card effect using a previously unopened deck of playing cards.”
Not one to rest on his laurels, Dad became a town crier in his sixties, travelling the world representing sponsor cities in international competitions. His name is engraved on the plaque beneath the town crier statue that greets cruise ship visitors to Victoria’s Ogden Point.
He was always in demand and “the most photographed entertainer” at the annual Victoria Beer Festival, an event he worked for the last time just months before his advanced cancer diagnosis.
At the celebration of life held in his memory, in September 2013, we were all reduced to tears by the “broken wand ceremony” performed by fellow members of The International Brotherhood of Magicians.
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Spell Broken
As mentioned in my bio, I learned basic photography and darkroom skills from Dad as well. I made my very first photograph, a portrait of him, with his glass plate camera. He bought me my first camera, a Kodak Brownie, for my seventh birthday. Most importantly, he recognized that the weird hieroglyphs I scrawled on my toy cupboard door as a child were “mirror-writing,” a result of dyslexia. He spent countless hours tutoring this leftie so I might iɔniV ɒb obɿɒnoɘ⅃ ɘʞil ƨƨɘl ɘƚiɿw. He also taught me bricklaying, garden design, and carpentry — pursuits that bring me great satisfaction to this day.
After taking up photography commercially, I produced much of Dad’s promotional material. The gallery below features a few of those images.
Ray Roch - He was my best friend in and out of magic, and to this day I still perform two effects of his. One is the Tricky bottles and the other is his Pom Pom routine. We worked a lot of shows together and I learned a lot about characterization from him. He had so many splendid character costumes made by his wife Nora that It allowed him to take on a lot of gigs that required a specialty act.
It was Ray who suggested that I begin wearing an old vaudevillian, carny style costume, colour coordinated with a suitcase table to become a character that invariably got me work because I was identifiable.
A fond memory I have is the time Ray and I were booked along with a half dozen other magicians to perform close-up magic at a large convention and as it turned out, we were the only performers wearing a costume. Ray as a mad hatter and me as a flim flam man.
All others wore traditional garb and blended into the crowd; Whereas, no matter where you looked you could see Ray and I in our colourful costumes with a crowd gathered around us while we performed.
Ray was a good friend who will be forever remembered!May 25, 2020 – 1:56 pm
Raymond Parker - Thanks so much for adding this, Ray. I remember a couple of shows you and Dad did together. Great team work! It’s a great comfort to me to hear all the anecdotes from his fellow entertainers. I realize with every passing year just what a great environment — full of laughs and opportunities — I grew up in. I also recall with fondness (after the initial embarrassment wore off) the shoot I did for you some 35-years ago.
May 25, 2020 – 3:07 pm
Arthur J Parker - What a man. What a wonderful life. RIP my cousin Ray. Arthur.xxMay 25, 2020 – 8:42 am
Raymond Parker - Thanks for your comment, Arthur. All the best!May 25, 2020 – 3:09 pm
Stephen Hinde - Ray, your love for your father shines through the memorial. I didn’t know Ray Sr. well, but I clearly remember his performance at your wedding. That night it was his love for you that shone through. I will always be grateful for the influence he has had on your character.July 19, 2018 – 12:47 pm
Raymond Parker - Yeah, it could be worse. 🙂 Seriously though, thanks for your nice comment.July 19, 2018 – 7:39 pm
Janis La Couvée - if memory serves me correctly I think I met your Dad on Twitter before I met you–back in those halcyon days of mid-early adoption. What a spark!July 16, 2018 – 7:59 am
Raymond Parker - That’s quite possible. He was an active “twitterer” for some time. Mind you, considering your active role in the arts in Victoria, you would have met him in person sooner or later.
Actually, I was searching for his account just yesterday but I guess it’s been deleted as, of course, it has been dormant for 5 years.July 16, 2018 – 8:19 am
Susan - oh my, everyone knew who Ray Sr was!!! My grandpa was involved with the Eagles club in Vancouver until he passed in 1971. Grandpa had a lot of photos as the F.O.E. were involved in a lot of fundraisers and included many many entertainers. Talent runs in your family. I wish I knew who had all of his old stuff as I’m sure your dad was in them. Most of the family are gone now darn it. I will try to see if I can track down anything. He had film and a gazillion slides and photos. They did a lot of events for charity. They held a lot of picnics in the summer and special Christmas ‘dos’ for member’s families, but also for the community. I believe Julius La Rosa visited a few times? is that name familiar? July 15, 2018 – 10:56 am
Raymond Parker - Julias not a familiar name to me, Susan, but I’ll guarantee my dad knew your grandpa. He played the Eagles clubs all over the place and may have been a member at one point. If memory serves, I believe our last “family reunion” performance, in 1988 (during a brief visit to Vancouver during my Toronto days), was at an Eagles Club in Vancouver.
I know Dad did a lot of work for charities and when we kids were involved we joined him on some too, including the Variety Club Children’s Telethon.
What serendipity that your grandpa surely knew Dad. That would be a hoot if you could track down a photo!July 15, 2018 – 11:54 am
Susan Goodchild - This is such a lovely tribute to your dad (my uncle). You must have such wonderful memories thank you for sharing them. I will show mum she will love them.July 15, 2018 – 10:03 am
Raymond Parker - Cheers, Susan. I’d really appreciate you showing this to Auntie Rita. Best to all.July 15, 2018 – 10:10 am
Arthur Parker - Brilliant Raymond. Brought back a lot of memories of Ray just reading it. All happy memories of happier times. Thank you.July 15, 2018 – 9:51 am
Raymond Parker - Thanks, Arthur. It is a sad day, but we will never forget the mischievous characters he channeled. Those memories bring a smile.July 15, 2018 – 10:03 am
Lynn Hirshman - Lovely memorial…I remember Ray with such fondness…wish I’d been able to know him better.July 15, 2018 – 7:52 am
Raymond Parker - Thank you, Lynn. We all have cherished memories, though we miss the magic … and bad puns.July 15, 2018 – 8:41 am